Lady Alexandra
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Dec 17, 1971 (Age: 46)
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central Indiana.
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housewife, caregiver.

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Lady Alexandra

Active Member, Female, 46, from central Indiana.

And behold, I return! (I have to go find all my bookmarks and download all my programs, though!) Jan 14, 2018 at 7:29 PM

Lady Alexandra was last seen:
Jan 20, 2018 at 10:23 AM
    1. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      And behold, I return! (I have to go find all my bookmarks and download all my programs, though!)
      1. Azel likes this.
    2. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Also, currently hating being faceblind. Better stay quiet than ask a stupid question. (sigh)
    3. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Not @Boyfriend's. He's still got some respiratory crud, protecting Husband's lungs/heart. . Doesn't mean I have to LIKE it.
    4. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Boyfriend's getting me roving and a new spindle and an inkle loom!
    5. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      It hurts to be stuck between dying and living, the past and the future, what is and what can be.
      1. Xanax and Clancy like this.
    6. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Fangirling the Timperator just a bit for his postings in my feed.
    7. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Hana is asleep on Boyfriend's lap. He looks so very happy. I'm so full of joy for them both!
      1. Azel likes this.
    8. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      He has named his cat Hana. She is settling in nicely.
    9. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      My hand moved next to Kashiki. She raised her head to have it rub her chin. I almost cried... now she knows hands here only love.
      1. Xanax, Velveteen, WereBear and 2 others like this.
    10. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Kashiki is playing! With the other cat! With a toy!
      1. WereBear, Azel and Clancy like this.
    11. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Home. Surgery went well but waiting was beyond tedious. Am now being Just Quiet and Introverted.
      1. Azel and Alice like this.
    12. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      I texted Boyfriend if he wanted a call from me. Hope he doesn't respond, I wanna go to bed. Lol!
      1. Azel likes this.
    13. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      When does the doctor's office call? When he's still in bed and I'm on the toilet. (sigh) Now we're both up. Where's the return call?
    14. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      And now to bed, hoping not to be awakened by spouse wanting blankets and this and that and the other.
    15. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      There are times where having an autistic son makes me want to tear my hair out.
      1. Azel
        Azel
        Best of luck and let's hope things will get better soonish.
        Oct 30, 2017
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      2. Lady Alexandra
        Lady Alexandra
        Too much video gaming, not enough job hunting.
        Oct 30, 2017
    16. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      I'm up @6 am cause kitten pulled curtains and curtain rod down on Husband while he slept. Thanks a bunch, cat.
    17. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      and faceplanted a traffic barrel so 2 black eyes and 12 stitches and face all bruised.
    18. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      9pm: "Husband in motorcycle accident". Broken ankle (which is a problem cause he's 400 lb easy)
    19. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Feeling much better today. Thank Dog.
    20. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Apparently I had forgotten how miserable it is to be sick from both ends at once, and needed reminding. I know now. Can we stop now?
    21. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Today: Pull pork butt, make bread, clean up, be moral support while Boyfriend sweettalks church that owns the house.
    22. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Back home. Fibro 80% done flaring. Continuing serious hydration, stretching, and rest.
      1. Azel
        Azel
        Good luck with that and take care!
        Oct 1, 2017
    23. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Did I mention that having fibromyalgia sucks? Currently having tactile and somatic hallucinations of dislocated joints.
      1. Timperator of Mankind
        Timperator of Mankind
        I'm so sorry. :(
        Oct 1, 2017
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    24. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Got up at 6:40 for 8 am appt. 7:20 am, "reschedule, please" on the phone. I'm up now, damn it. Grr.
      1. Azel
        Azel
        Damn, that's late for a rescheduling...
        Sep 26, 2017
      2. Lady Alexandra
        Lady Alexandra
        It is, but apparently the therapist woke up sick. This happens... but damn it made for a LONG day! I normally get up between 8 and 9.
        Sep 26, 2017
    25. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      My Meezer is feeling better: Rocketing around the room and talking emphatically at points as she does so. Oookay.
      1. Clancy likes this.
    26. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      He loves the house. It's a WHOLE LOTTA HOUSE. Nearly 5000 square feet OMFG. Now to hear what an inspector says b/f falling in love with it.
      1. Clancy and Velveteen like this.
    27. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      My head is anxious about Boyfriend liking the house. So I'm up. Also worried about friends in Irma's path.
    28. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Talked to guy who owns that Queen Anne. New roof when he bought it ten years back, he updated electrical and most of the plumbing.
      1. Clancy and WereBear like this.
    29. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      1880's Queen Anne,in fabulous condition. New wallpaper and carpet, probably. 5 br 4 bath. Upstairs can be apartment. Age in place. Wow.
    30. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      OMG. Boyfriend wants to look at a house with me. Up here in my home town. House I've dreamed of for 10 years is back on the market.
      1. Velveteen and Clancy like this.
    31. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      I think I should pack things so I can have lemon-poppyseed muffins on Sunday. And sausage and cheese quichecake.
      1. Captain Cassidy likes this.
      2. Captain Cassidy
        Captain Cassidy
        Hope the weekend goes well with the mentors!
        Sep 2, 2017
    32. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      So husband wants cookies more often. Diabetic and heart failure. Ookay. (sigh)
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      3. Captain Cassidy
        Captain Cassidy
        Fuck, that sucks, I'm sorry hon. Maybe low-carb cookies? The kind called "breakfast cookies" are good but lower on the glycemic scale. They're an acquired taste but they might be along the right lines? Ugh, you've probably already thought of this, I'll shut up and just say I'm sorry, I know exactly what that combo of "wants cookies" and "has these conditions" means, and I wish I could help.
        Aug 31, 2017
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      4. Lady Alexandra
        Lady Alexandra
        I'm going to make him the chocolate truffles I make for my boyfriend, which involve a lot of chocolate, whey powder, coconut and almond flour, and almond milk. They taste very chocolate truffle. LIke whoa. So that may help. They are also very filling, given the protein.
        Aug 31, 2017
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      5. Captain Cassidy
        Captain Cassidy
        That may be the only way to do it. They sound a bit like fitness nuts' protein balls.
        Sep 2, 2017
    33. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      I have tea and orange spice muffins. Life is good.
    34. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      home from boyfriend's house, exhausted. No online. Early bedtime for me. Oof.
    35. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Home and still exhausted after 12 hours sleep. Oof.
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      2. Azel
        Azel
        The meeting in Colombus went well?
        Aug 24, 2017
      3. Lady Alexandra
        Lady Alexandra
        Apparently his mentors like me, mentor's wife wants my scone recipe, and I fixed a baking problem she was having with her baguettes. But it was exhausting, and my period showed up too, for more fun.
        Aug 24, 2017
      4. Azel
        Azel
        Glad to hear that and have a good rest.
        Aug 24, 2017
    36. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Going to Columbus OH with Boyfriend. Meeting his mentors. Nervous as hell. Don't want to make him look bad.
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      2. Azel
        Azel
        Good luck to you two!
        Aug 23, 2017
      3. WereBear
        WereBear
        He loves you, so be you :)
        Aug 23, 2017
    37. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Anxiety attack over, found money to save house, no worries. Gah. I am too old for this crap.
      1. WereBear likes this.
    38. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Having anxiety attack: City wants to sell our house for back tax bill of $343.32.
    39. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      For a few brief shining moments, I'll have money. And then I'll pay the bills and I won't.
    40. Lady Alexandra
      Lady Alexandra
      Knowing you are doing the right thing is often not very snuggly and comforting.
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    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    Dec 17, 1971 (Age: 46)
    Location:
    central Indiana.
    Occupation:
    housewife, caregiver.
    If you were a D&D character, what class would you be?:
    • Cleric
    The band is playing! But what kind of music is it playing?:
    Sometimes jazz, sometimes chamber music, sometimes trance, sometimes rock. I am vast, I contain multitudes.
    What is your deconversion status?:
    • I'm not planning on deconverting.
    I'm a 45 year old Ordeal Path neopagan owned by Vesta and occasionally rented out to Inanna. I'm polyamorous, and the cast of characters shows up here. Husband, of 28 years, and Boyfriend, of four years, and his girlfriends, Veggie Girl and Gamer Girl. I also have a Girlfriend, who lives with Husband and I, and that is a complicated relationship. Elder and Younger Sons also sometimes make an appearance. They live with my mother and help her with her land, since she has a bad back.

    I spend my days coping with my own medical issues, and with my husband's multiple terminal conditions, none of which have stopped him from continuing to hoard. I see Boyfriend on weekends, but right now that's down to a date evening at my house because Husband had a motorcycle accident and needs me here full-time.

    I'm happy to talk about anything; online is my social outlet just now.

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