After Dark - Some Consenting Adults Forum

Discussion in 'Site News and Updates' started by dangitbobby, Jul 12, 2017.

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  1. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Howdy everyone,

    We are opening a new section of the forum that is strictly "by permission" only. Meaning this won't be open to the general forum, you must request to join.

    Right now, I'm considering this an "open enrollment" period. If you want to join, please leave a comment below.

    In this forum the topic of sex is allowed, pretty much with no limits, except for what is listed below. This includes the sharing of porn. You must be 18+ to join and a moderator or admin must add you.

    If you don't want to join, you won't ever see the forum at all. We know not every member will want to see the threads pop up, so we are working it this way out of respect for all board members. This makes sure everyone who is there is at least 18 and consenting to be there.

    Here are the full rules:

    1. In general, the sharing of adult material will be allowed. This includes both visual and written porn, except for these categories:

    - Anything underage, including clothed, obviously.
    - Real or simulated rape (Written stories/sharing experiences is okay)
    - Real or simulated bestiality (Sex with animals, in case anyone didn't know, same with the above, the written word is okay)
    - Real incest or simulated incest. (Writing okay)

    The above are due to laws in the United States, while simulations of the above are generally deemed legal, I don't have the time to play lawyer and wade through it all to determine what is legal and not. As such, just avoid these topics, please.

    The reason for allowing writing: some people may wish to discuss experiences they have had and I don't want to limit those who might want to use the forum as a way of sexual healing.

    The only exception to that is underage: if you are writing a story about someone under 18 for the purpose of getting off, that isn't allowed. If you are sharing your story about sexual abuse for the purpose of healing, that is okay - just please avoid graphic details.

    2. No public sexting. If you want to engage in online virtual sex with another member or members, you can PM(Private message) them here or outside the forum. Just remember, consent! I don't want to have to ban anyone for sending unwanted dick pics.

    3. No uploading of porn on our servers. Please link to any porn. Images can be imbedded from other sites using [image] tag, videos can be linked to. This is to prevent sharing of copyright material you don't have permission to share, and keeps us from having to sort through potentially copyright material.

    4. It is advised you post content trigger warnings. Play it safe - if it's about sex, or showing it, please include a content warning, like this:

    HC Video - Rest of title
    Anal - Rest of title
    BDSM - etc.

    You get the idea. While this won't be heavily enforced, it's for respect of people who might not want to see something.

    5. Be warned: I know people and stuff can get pretty graphic. If you are easily triggered or are bothered by graphic sex, then this part of the forum might be for you! You've been warned!

    Again, if you want to join, please request it in this thread and you will be added. This open enrollment period will last one week. (7 days)

    Thanks!
     
  2. Lady Alexandra

    Lady Alexandra Active Member

    I have put a thread in the forum about consent, because some recovering from fundamentalism have trouble with the concept once they get out in the wider world.
     
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  3. Critter

    Critter The Nameless One

    Sure, please add me.
     
  4. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

  5. Please add me.
     
  6. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Added!
     
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  7. FiveAcres

    FiveAcres New Member

    Please add me.
     
  8. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

  9. Artor

    Artor New Member

    Hmm. Your ideas are intriguing to me and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.
     
  10. WMDKitty

    WMDKitty Favored of Khenarthi

    Add, please?
     
  11. Azel

    Azel Asian contigent, expat edition

    Could you please add me?
     
  12. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Added, added and added!
     
  13. KayS

    KayS Active Member

    Add please, thanks
     
  14. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

  15. KayS

    KayS Active Member

    Thanks!
    One suggestion, could the adult forum have sub forums like the main forum? Something like Rules and Introductions, Sexuality Post Religion, Recovering from the Past, Porn, General Chat, etc.?
     
  16. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Sure, I can set that up later today. :D
     
  17. catbutler

    catbutler New Member

    Please add me if enrollment is still open. Thank you.
     
  18. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Yup, added!
     
  19. KayS

    KayS Active Member

    Thanks for adding the sub forums
     
  20. Melody

    Melody Active Member

    I've been in two minds about this part of the forum, do I want in or not?

    I don't want to be triggered or confronted with anything I don't wish to see, but then I am interested in the more recovery related sub forums.

    So make that a tentative add me, please...
     
  21. KayS

    KayS Active Member

    This was my main concern as well which is why I asked for the sub forums (thanks dangitbobby!), and so far that's working for me (true its only a day or two old so there's not many threads). I also plan to add content notes to any threads I post, especially in the recovery related sub forums, so people can decide if the thread is something they want to deal with or not.
     
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  22. Melody

    Melody Active Member

    Thanks! That's good to hear. At first, I thought this forum may not be for me, but some of it may be. :)
     
  23. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Yes, you can avoid the porn or story forums if you like, and with content tags/warnings in the general discussion threads, you should be able to avoid anything you don't want see. I'm adding you now.
     
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  24. catbutler

    catbutler New Member

    Thanks.
     
  25. Erinys Trace

    Erinys Trace New Member

    not sure I will use it, but add me just in case
     
  26. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

  27. Melody

    Melody Active Member

    Thanks!
     
  28. LadyLesbiana

    LadyLesbiana Collector of Tattoos and Piercings

    Sign me up, please!
     
  29. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

  30. Clint W.

    Clint W. Guardian of the Chocolates

    I would like to upgrade to the full RtD forum experience, please.
     
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  31. Timperator of Mankind

    Timperator of Mankind Actual Reverend High Loreteller Staff Member

    [insert appropriate Krieger quote here]
     
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  32. Clint W.

    Clint W. Guardian of the Chocolates

    [​IMG]
     
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  33. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Clint, your experience has been upgraded.
     
  34. Clint W.

    Clint W. Guardian of the Chocolates

    Thank you kindly, sir.
     
  35. BlackBird

    BlackBird Active Member

    Sure, sign me up.
     
  36. dangitbobby

    dangitbobby Administrator Staff Member

    Signed up!
     
  37. BlackBird

    BlackBird Active Member

    Thank you muchly!
     
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  38. May I be included, please?
     
  39. Lambchopsuey

    Lambchopsuey Active Member

    Me me me!!

    Don't give me that "surprised" look O_O
     
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  40. Critter

    Critter The Nameless One

    Oh, that wasn't surprise on my face. :D
     
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